What You Need to Know About Having Kids at Your Wedding: Part I

Weddings are a magical celebration of love and unity, and the presence of children can add an extra layer of joy and vibrancy to your... Read More

Weddings are a magical celebration of love and unity, and the presence of children can add an extra layer of joy and vibrancy to your special day. However, including kids in your wedding requires thoughtful preparation to ensure that both children and adults have a memorable experience. 

In this two-part series, we’ll explore everything you need to know about having kids at your wedding. In this first part, we’ll dive into the essential preparations, including crafting a kid-friendly menu, creating a dedicated play area, and ensuring safety and supervision.

How to Prepare to Have Kids at Your Wedding

Start by identifying the families with children who will be attending your wedding. Communicate with parents to gauge the number and ages of the children, ensuring you understand their specific needs. This will help you plan effectively and accommodate everyone.

Consider hiring a dedicated children’s coordinator or babysitter. A professional can provide focused care, keep the kids entertained, and allow parents to enjoy the festivities without worry. When selecting a caregiver, look for someone with experience in handling groups of children and who has been vetted through references or a reputable agency.

Craft a Kid-Friendly Menu

Incorporate child-friendly options into your catering plans to keep the little ones happy and satisfied. Balance gourmet selections with kid-approved favorites like mini sliders, chicken tenders, and mac ‘n’ cheese bites.

Allergy and Dietary Considerations

Ensure that your menu includes options for children with dietary restrictions or allergies. Communicate with parents ahead of time to accommodate any special needs, such as gluten-free, dairy-free, or vegetarian options.

Interactive Food Stations

Create fun and engaging food stations that will captivate the kids. Ideas like DIY mini pizza stations or cookie decorating tables provide interactive and enjoyable experiences that keep children entertained while they eat.

Create a Kids Play Area

Choose a location within your venue that’s safe, easily accessible, and visible to parents. Decorate the area in a way that is both elegant and fun, complementing the overall theme of your wedding while making it inviting for children.

Safety Measures

Ensure that your venue is child-proofed to prevent accidents. Arrange for first-aid kits and establish clear emergency procedures.

Supervision Strategies

Assign specific adults or hire staff to supervise children throughout the event. Establish check-in points and schedules so parents and caregivers can coordinate and ensure kids are safe and accounted for.


Thoughtful preparation is crucial when including children in your wedding. From understanding your guest list to crafting a kid-friendly menu and ensuring safety and supervision, these steps will help create a memorable experience for both kids and adults.

Stay tuned for Part 2, where we’ll explore kid-friendly activities and entertainment options to make your wedding day even more special. Happy planning!

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